Friday, February 24, 2017

Book Review: Dog Training the American Male

By Sara Steven

Meet Dr. Nancy Beach, a relationship counselor who hosts a local radio show called Love's a Beach. One problem: The relationship guru can’t seem to make her own relationships work, sending her credibility and ratings into the toilet. Meet Jacob Cope, a walking thesaurus of phobias -- a Lehman Brothers casualty who's lost his job and swagger and now yearns to be a ventriloquist. When Nancy and Jacob are set up on a blind date and hit it off, their siblings, desperate to be rid of them, encourage the young couple to move in together. When the honeymoon stage abruptly ends, Jacob attempts to mend the fence by adopting a dog; a big dog and Nancy flips out . . . until she realizes the dog trainer's techniques can be used to housebreak Jacob and save her radio career. (Synopsis courtesy of Amazon)

Relationships are rarely easy, especially between two people who are riddled with their own hangups and baggage. Nancy has never had success where love is concerned, despite her degrees and career status. Jacob’s past has completely crippled him from living any sort of normal existence, filled with bizarre phobias and rules on how he feels life should be lived. They couldn’t be more opposite, which is exactly why they’re drawn to one another, providing the perfect environment for comedic debauchery!

Dog Training the American Male made me laugh. Hard. Conversations between various characters, like Nancy’s sister’s bodybuilding girlfriend, or Jacob’s gynecologist brother, the quips and one-liners were hilarious, and very real. I could imagine having similar conversations with my husband, or with close friends. Subjects which would normally be considered slightly taboo and off-limits unless in the company of those you trust the most are on full display here, enabling the reader to live vicariously through the story.

And the story is a unique one. Using canine training tactics to keep her man in line, Nancy is sure she’s found a way to live harmoniously with Jacob, and like with most things when dealing with the male persuasion, it works. For a time. Even an old dog can learn new tricks. But for how long, and will re-programming someone lend to a happily ever after?

Underneath the comedy and fun, there are deeper issues, ones I could appreciate. Can any of us learn to live with someone, as is? Ultimately, should we work on changing someone, versus finding someone who already has the qualities and characteristics we think we’re looking for, and even then, is there ever a real sure fire guarantee of a successful relationship? Dog Training takes an honest look into these questions and more, showcasing the psyche of what women want, and what makes a man tick, offering up a deliciously hilarious doggie treat along the way.

Thanks to Smith Publicity for the book in exchange for an honest review.

Thursday, February 23, 2017

Judy Fogarty has a hold on us...plus a book giveaway

We're pleased to have Judy Forgarty here today to talk about her debut novel, Breaking and Holding. Thanks to TLC Book Tours, we have one copy to give away! Visit all the stops on her tour for more chances to win, as well.

Judy Fogarty lives, writes, reads, and runs on the historic Isle of Hope, in her native Savannah, Georgia. She holds a Master of Music degree from the University of Illinois and has served as Director of Marketing for private golf and tennis communities in the Savannah/Hilton Head area, including The Landings on Skidaway Island, Berkeley Hall, and Callawassie Island. She is a devoted (even rowdy) tennis fan as anyone who has ever had the pleasure (or displeasure) of watching a match with her will attest. She is happily at work on her second novel, and as always, enjoys the invaluable support of her husband, Mike, and children, Colin and Sara Jane. Visit Judy at her website, Facebook, and Twitter.


Synopsis:
For Patricia Curren, the summer of 1978 begins with a devastating discovery: an unfamiliar black pearl button in the bed she shares with her controlling husband, Jack. Seeking the courage to end her desolate marriage, Patricia spends a quiet summer alone on beautiful Kiawah Island. But when she meets Terry Sloan, a collegiate tennis player trying to go pro, their physical attraction sparks a slow burn toward obsession.

Once Patricia and Terry share closely guarded secrets from their pasts, they want more than a summer together. But their love soon fractures, as a potential sponsor takes an unusually keen interest in Terry—both on court and off. And when single, career-driven Lynn Hewitt arrives, other secrets must surface, including the one Patricia has kept from Terry all summer.


An intimate portrait of the folly of the human heart, Breaking and Holding explores buried truths that are startlingly unveiled. What’s left in their wake has the power not only to shatter lives…but to redeem them.


In one sentence, what was the road to publishing like?
The road was long (decades if you count the first version of this novel, which unsuccessfully made the rounds in New York long ago and slept in my attic for many years); tedious (100 query letters to literary agents); discouraging (99 rejections); exciting (1 offer of representation which quickly led to a sale); and totally worth it.

What was the most challenging part of writing your debut novel? The most rewarding?
When I polished my first draft of Breaking and Holding, I had sentences I loved, scenes that sang right off the page, and a circle of characters who I knew as well as I knew myself. What I did not have was a soundly structured, tautly paced story. Revising was necessary, challenging and painstaking. I've never counted the number of versions of Breaking and Holding that are saved on my computer, but in revision, the original 189,000 words fell to 96,000, and as much as it pained me, every one of those darlings needed to go. As for the most rewarding part of writing the novel? Having someone read and respond to my work is a reward like no other. That was true as I wrote the novel, when encouragement from my writing group, family and close friends kept me going, and that is true for me today as a published author. I love hearing from readers.

Which authors have inspired you to write Breaking and Holding?
New novelists are well-advised not to link themselves to literary giants. I would never say that F. Scott Fitzgerald inspired Breaking and Holding, or that I even dream of writing a novel of the caliber of The Great Gatsby. But I do admit that my debut novel has Gatsby-esque overtones. Both Gatsby and Breaking and Holding are stories of obsessive love and infidelity. Like Gatsby, Breaking and Holding plays out against the backdrop of an era of social change and moral turmoil—Fitzgerald's novel against the Jazz Age of the 1920s, and mine against the Me-Decade of the 1970s. Most importantly, in my novel, first-person narrator Lynn Hewitt, like Nick Carraway, is caught in the middle of an affair involving people she loves and is helpless to protect. For me, it's Lynn's perspective and presence that enrich Breaking and Holding.

Since the story takes place in 1978, what are some songs from that year that would be on the soundtrack of Breaking and Holding?
"Wonderful Tonight" (Eric Clapton)
"Just the Way You Are" (Billy Joel)
"Who are You?" (The Who)
"Prove It All Night" (Bruce Springsteen)
"You're the One that I Want" (Olivia Newton-John and John Travolta, from Grease)
"Stayin' Alive" (Bee Gees, Saturday Night Fever)
"Mamas, Don't Let Your Babies Grow Up to be Cowboys" (Waylon Jennings and Willie Nelson)
"Do You Think I'm Sexy?" (Rod Stewart)
"Got to Get You Into My Life" (Earth, Wind and Fire)
"Peg" (Steely Dan)
"Still the Same" (Bob Seeger)
Running on Empty (Jackson Browne)

If you could take us on a tour of Savannah, Georgia, where would we go first?
We would start a few miles from the city, on the historic Isle of Hope, where I live (and where my next novel is set). With a short walk on Bluff Drive, which borders the Skidaway River, I would give you a sense of the area's rich history and the natural beauty of the Southeast Coast. Some of the small cottages and grand homes along this bluff date from the 1840s and 50s when city residents used the island as a summer retreat. They're stunning but eclipsed by the river, salt-marsh, tidal creeks, and stately oaks with Spanish moss—a landscape I've always loved.

What is your favorite way to escape?
A day at the beach with an excellent book. The beach could be anywhere but is often Tybee Island, a twenty-minute drive from my house. And the book? A page-turner is always nice, but for me, prose matters too. I'm not married to a particular style. I'll take rich, atmospheric or rhythmic. Quirky, original or clever. But a good story deserves to be written well, and when I find one, I'm on the beach until the tide comes in and the sun goes down.

Thanks to Judy for visiting with us and to TLC Book Tours for sharing her book with our readers.


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Wednesday, February 22, 2017

Book Review and Giveaway: I See You

By Jami Deise

After last year’s triumphant I Let You Go, Clare Mackintosh has banished any fears of a sophomore slump with her second rock-solid thriller, I See You. While I Let You Go featured very specific characters and played on reader expectations to pull off a twist, I See You twists everyday characters in the most ordinary of situations – the daily commute – to show that danger can be hidden in plain sight. Ironically, what keeps the book from a completely satisfying ending is that Mackintosh fulfills reader expectations rather than subverting them in the end.

Londoner Zoe Walker has an ordinary life, a single mum living with two young adult children and her new boyfriend. Her day is punctuated by her commute to work, most of which takes place on the Tube. Reading the London Gazette one afternoon, Zoe is struck by her resemblance to a grainy photo of a woman in an ad for a dating site. When her boyfriend Simon pooh-poohs the resemblance, she thinks nothing of it, and other women’s pictures show up in future advertisements. Then Zoe recognizes one of the women – she’s been the victim of a crime. Is it just a coincidence, or is she next?

Zoe goes to the police, and the only one who takes her seriously is detective Kelly Swift, who becomes the second point-of-view character in the novel. (The third is the italicized voice of the bad guy.) Kelly’s been on probation for beating up a rape suspect (clearly, we’re not in America here) and eager to prove herself. Her motivation is also personal – her twin sister Lexie was raped in college; Lexie’s fears of being stalked weren’t taken seriously, and her rapist was never found.

Zoe and Kelly’s detective work uncover a website called FindTheOne.com, where high-paying members purchase the details of women’s commutes. Zoe’s picture was lifted from her own Facebook page. As Kelly and her colleagues work to discover the site’s administrator and clients, Zoe faces danger every time she steps out of her home. Is the man on the train staring at her, or just staring into space? As women on the site are raped and murdered, Zoe knows her days could be numbered. She begins suspecting everyone around her, even her daughter Katie’s new boyfriend.

Mackintosh does an outstanding job ratcheting up the tension as the walls figuratively close in on Zoe. A modern novel, the book exploits our current dependency on technology as well as London’s mass surveillance under its CCTV system. (Estimates put one camera for every 32 people in the U.K.) But even with all this technology, no one is truly safe. Cameras can record a crime, but they cannot prevent one. The author’s background in detective work also shines through as Kelly doggedly pursues leads and works within the system.

The book does have two weaknesses, though – a slow beginning that concentrates on the mundane stresses of Zoe’s daily life before she puts the clues together, and an ending that fulfills tropes about the murder mystery genre in a book that should have subverted them completely. While the climax itself is compelling and utilizes the established technology in a unique but very fitting way, there is a specific aspect of the book’s ending that will disappoint readers.

The epilogue, however, is chilling.

With the Kelly character, Mackintosh has enough left over for a sequel or even a series. Although readers may have had enough of Zoe’s family by the ending, Mackintosh hints their story might not be over. But Kelly’s future is bright, and I hope we haven’t seen the last of her.

While most books with issues usually have problems in the middle, I See You offers a solid midsection while faltering somewhat in the beginning and ending. Still, these stumbles are not enough to keep the book from being engaging. Readers who enjoyed I Let You Go should pick up I See You. Others may find the ending more satisfying than I did.

Thanks to Berkley for the book in exchange for an honest review.

We have one set of  I Let You Go and I See You to give away!

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Tuesday, February 21, 2017

Book Review and Giveaway: The Mother's Promise

By Melissa Amster

All their lives, Alice Stanhope and her daughter Zoe have been a family of two, living quietly in northern California. Zoe has always struggled with crippling social anxiety and her mother has been her constant and fierce protector. With no family to speak of, and the identity of Zoe s father shrouded in mystery, their team of two works until it doesn t. Until Alice gets sick and needs to fight for her life.

Desperate to find stability for Zoe, Alice reaches out to two women who are practically strangers, but who are her only hope: Kate, a nurse, and Sonja, a social worker. As the four of them come together, a chain of events is set into motion and all four of them must confront their sharpest fears and secrets secrets about abandonment, abuse, estrangement, and the deepest longing for family. Imbued with heart and humor in even the darkest moments, The Mother s Promise is an unforgettable novel about the unbreakable bonds between mothers and daughters, and the new ways in which families are forged. (Synopsis courtesy of Amazon.)

I'm a fan of Sally Hepworth's writing and her third novel is equally compelling to her previous two. I normally shy away from books about women who are potentially dying, but I've made exceptions here and there. I knew that with Sally's name on the cover, the story would be sensitively written, but also would tug at the heartstrings. She did not disappoint in that regard. I even got teary-eyed a few times.

What I loved most about this book was Zoe's narrative. I tend to flock to the teenager's point of view in a novel, whenever that is available. Zoe was especially interesting to read about with her social anxiety and how she deals with some new situations in her life. She was the easiest to visualize and the one I wanted to give a big hug to when I was finished.

There was one aspect that reminded me of a book I read a few years ago, which made it a bit predictable. I won't say which book as to not spoil things, but if you also read that book before reading this one, you will know exactly what I'm talking about. There were still other surprises in store, so having this parallel didn't bother me too much.

Overall, we have another winner from Sally Hepworth and I already can't wait for her next novel.

Dream cast:
Alice: Jennifer Morrison
Paul: Breckin Meyer
Zoe: Oona Laurence (I pictured her from the very beginning.)
Sonja: Robin Wright
Kate: Ginnifer Goodwin

Thanks to St. Martin's Press for the book in exchange for an honest review. They have TWO copies for some lucky readers!

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Friday, February 17, 2017

Book Review: Licking Flames

By Sara Steven

This collection of stories, culled from Kirk’s adolescence as well as the early years of her marriage through the present day, is a must­ read for anyone who has ever felt like they didn’t quite fit in between the stereotypes of the virgin, the whore and the soccer mom. These laugh­-out-loud stories are equally funny, sarcastic, witty and sentimental and readers will feel like they are reading their best friend’s journal...or their own. Kirk is ballsy, brainy, brave and brilliant and readers will love her. (synopsis courtesy of Goodreads)

So many of us strive to fit within the confines of what others deem as normalcy, and it can be downright unforgiving. It’s hard to be perfect all the time, to do the right thing, to gain acceptance. And yet we still try, often failing and feeling as though we don’t belong or don’t measure up.

Diana Kirk asks a very important, albeit subtle question in Licking Flames: Tales of a Half-Assed Hussy. Why does it matter? Why try to fit into some box when it’s a lot more fun and freeing to to just be yourself and live the life you want to really live?

Licking Flames is unfiltered and real. Divided into short stories that delve into the mind of Kirk, we get an idea of what it’s really like. What it’s really like to be married, have children. Have friends who aren’t perfect and do some really stupid things. There were moments where I felt a little judgmental of her choices, because they were choices I’d never make in my own life, but that’s the point. Whether you agree with her or not, Kirk is true to her experiences and who she is, regardless of what any of us think.

Where I identified with her the most was when she recounts her experiences as a teenager. I certainly never colored inside the lines during my teen angst years, behaving boldly and brashly. There are times I’ve wondered if I’d change things if given the opportunity to go back in time, yet ultimately, I wouldn’t. I was very brave back then, a strength I wish I could get back now, in my late thirties. You can tell how much confidence she has in her own skin. That’s the sort of thing I’d like to strive for. Normalcy is overrated.

Thanks to MindBuck Media for the book in exchange for an honest review.

Thursday, February 16, 2017

Brea Brown's amazing undertaking...plus a book giveaway

We're pleased to have Brea Brown visiting us today to talk about The Family Plot, which was published last summer. Melissa A connected with her through Chick Lit Chat on Facebook and found they have a lot in common, including their day jobs as administrative assistants and being from the Midwest (although Brea still lives there).

Brea Brown is a humble Indie author who lives in Springfield, Missouri, with her three hilarious sons and her amazing husband. Her passions include writing, daydreaming, laughing, football, and not taking anything too seriously. When she’s not doing those things, she hangs out on Facebook and Twitter or blogs as “The Reluctant Blogger.” To learn more about Brea and her novels, visit her website.

Brea has THREE e-books of The Family Plot for some lucky readers to win.


Synopsis:
Whitney Faelhaber is a strong, independent woman. Just ask her, and she’ll tell you. Over and over again. When her favorite aunt passes away and bequeaths to her what feels like an entire life in Small Town, USA, Whitney’s supposed strength and independence meet their biggest challenge, to date. Leaving her family, a boyfriend, and a budding career in academia, Whitney moves to Morris, Maine, to settle her aunt’s numerous affairs and take up running Velvet Printing, Aunt Vel’s pride and joy.

“Culture shock” doesn’t begin to describe Whitney’s intro to Morris. To make things even more uncomfortable, the townsfolk seem intent on matchmaking her with the local oddball, Eric Mulligan. But romance with anyone—much less a socially awkward mortician—is the last thing on Whitney’s agenda. Her goal is to learn everything about her aunt’s business as quickly as possible, so she can return to her “real” life in Boston and oversee things from afar.

As Whitney digs through her aunt’s finances, looking for spare change to fund the operational fixes that will allow her to escape back to Boston, she discovers some strange discrepancies with no obvious explanations. But Weirdo Mulligan seems to know more than he’s letting on. And when Whitney finally drags the truth from him, it changes her entire view of the aunt she thought she knew… and the course of her own life.


Why did you decide to write chick lit?
Chick lit has been my favorite genre to read since before I even realized it was a genre. My intro to it was Jane Green's Jemima J, followed closely by such classics as The Devil Wears Prada, Good in Bed, and In Her Shoes. My favorite chick list author of all time is Jennifer Weiner. Her books were the ultimate inspiration for me writing my own stories. I just wanted to make readers feel as good as I felt when I read one of her books.

Do you base any of your characters on yourself?
Every single one of my characters has a little bit of me in her... or him. Even Nate in my Nurse Nate trilogy. I'm a fairly introspective person, so I'm hyper-aware of my quirks. I try to give one of them to each of my fictional friends. It helps me to better get into their heads and write what I hope are realistic characters. And after all, misery loves company, right?

What was the inspiration behind The Family Plot?
I get most of my ideas while driving. I don't have a particularly long commute to and from my day job, but it's the only alone time I have all day. I tend to study the people in the cars around me at stoplights. Daily, I'm caught staring as I wonder, "What's their life like?" Most of my books, though, start with a main character's job, and that was definitely the case with THE FAMILY PLOT. I drove past a funeral home one day near my neighborhood and thought, "Wow. What inspires someone to be a mortician?" That led me to think about the stereotypical undertaker (creepy!) and what it would be like to meet someone who defied some of those preconceptions. Eric Mulligan in all of his awkward, misfit glory was born. I'd also been mulling over an idea for a story taking place in a small New England town. I could definitely picture Eric in that town, working at his family's funeral home. Now all I needed was the perfect fish-out-of-water female protagonist. Enter Whitney Faelhaber, reluctant heiress to her aunt's print shop on Main Street, U.S.A.

If The Family Plot were made into a movie, who would be in the lead roles?
Reese Witherspoon would definitely play Whitney, and I'd love for funnyman Rob Delaney to play Eric.

What is your longest friendship?
I'm still in touch on Facebook with friends from elementary school. That has been the best benefit to social media, hands down.

Which TV show, book, or movie reminds you most of your own life?
I'd love to be able to cite something cool like The Mindy Project or Sex and the City, but alas, it is as if the creators of the show, The Middle, have been camped outside our windows, changing tiny details here and there to protect the innocent. I have three sons, and my organizational style is best described as, "Stores quilts in the oven." I'm basically Frankie Heck... on a good day.

Thanks to Brea for visiting with us and sharing her book with our readers.

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Wednesday, February 15, 2017

Chick Lit Cheerleader: Where's the popcorn?

Introduction by Melissa Amster

I recently saw a post about movies that came out 30 years ago and got all nostalgic. I can't believe Dirty Dancing, The Princess Bride, Adventures in Babysitting, Overboard, and Spaceballs are all included!

Our Chick Lit Cheerleader is here today to make us feel even more nostalgic about movies.

Movies That Shape Us


When I was eight years old, I wanted to be Olivia Newton-John. The hot pants and stilettos she wore in the hit musical Grease might’ve been a little much for me to wear as a second grader, yet I have the blonde hair going for me, which is nice. In the mid 1970’s, that was enough to win the coveted role of Sandy Olsson when playing Rydell High with the girls in my Naperville neighborhood. Some didn’t think that automatically made me Danny Zuko’s girlfriend (point taken), but that’s when I pulled the “I’m older than you so I’m making the rules” clause.  

Movies shape us—the ones we love and ones we loathe. The flicks we quote on cue. The ones we immediately freeze the T.V. on when flipping channels. The ones we wouldn’t watch again if you paid us—cough—Last Action Hero—cough. Since we’re amid awards season, let’s keep the red carpet rolling with the Films Jen Loves from Her First Twenty Years of Life category. Wouldn’t it make a stellar Jeopardy category? Probably more fitting of an SNL sketch. Probably.



  • The Natural (1984)- I grew up watching my dad play baseball in a league with his engineering cohorts. A rabid Detroit Tigers fan, my mom made sure I knew coach Sparky Anderson chewed sunflower seeds, not tobacco. And then there’s the movie’s lead, Robert Redford—swoon! He plays an extremely talented player who comes to the game at an age when most are hanging up their cleats. It’s not just about baseball; you’ll find love, mystery, and some dastardly devils as well.  
  • Willy Wonka & The Chocolate Factory (1971)- This doesn’t require an explanation, right? It’s chocolate and Gene Wilder magic when a down-on-his-luck yet ever hopeful boy wins the equivalent of the 1971 HGTV dream home and an Undercover Boss career of a lifetime!
  • The Accidental Tourist (1988)- Kooky Muriel Pritchett (Gina Davis) woos a travel guide writer (William Hurt) who’s mourning the loss of his son while his marriage unravels. The frailty and strength of these characters has stuck with me for almost 30 years, as well as, “Muriel. Muriel Pritchett. Remember, Muriel Pritchett.”
  • Star Wars: Episode IV-A New Hope (1977)- A princess, a Wookiee, a suave yet cocky pilot, and a Jedi-in-training walk into a battle station… Sounds like the beginning of a joke, right? I had never seen anything like this sci-fi, cinematic masterpiece before it premiered in 1977. Let’s talk about badass princesses for a minute—Princess Leia was a rebel in the best way possible and her action figure became my favorite go-to toy, besting Barbie, for a long time. At my house, Leia commanded the Millennium Falcon, not Han Solo. Just saying.  
  • The Bad News Bears (1977)- Heh-heh. Beer chugging Coach Buttermaker and his merry band of little leaguers, who swear like sailors, team up to take us out to the ballgame. Don’t tell my parents, but I saw this movie with my cousins when it was released. Even though I’m 46-years-young, they’d be mortified.
  • Animal House (1978)- Speaking of movies that would make my mother gasp that I watched with my cousins, let’s add Animal House to the mix. Oh, the tale as old as time of a fraternity trying to escape double-secret probation. My husband has laid down the law with our son, a high school senior, that this movie is a college prerequisite. I’m so proud of his parenting choices…sometimes.    
  • Caddyshack (1980)- If you didn’t catch the earlier “Carl” reference about the time he shared space with the Dali Lama, then you just might need to watch Caddyshack. A coming of age, teen-angst comedy starring heavy hitters Chevy Chase, Ted Knight, Rodney Dangerfield, and the iconic Bill Murray—who have their own issues—show us the other side of country club living in the 1980’s. I never ate a Baby Ruth candy bar before seeing this film, and I still maintain that perfect record.  Ew!
  • Dumbo (1941) - I sobbed, and I sobbed, and I sobbed the first time I watched Dumbo as a little girl. I still do. Much like Dorothy had the power to leave Oz and return home to Kansas the entire time, Mrs. Jumbo’s baby-mine had the power to fly without Timothy Mouse’s feather. You know that one thing you feel like you can’t accomplish? If Dumbo can fly, you can fly, too!
  • St. Elmo’s Fire (1985)- “It’s not easy being me.” If you’ve ever heard me say this phrase, now you know its origin. Recent college graduates attempt to find their place in the world after graduation. In other words, adulting is hard. The ties that bind them are also the same bonds that drive wedges between these friends. And then there’s sweaty, pretty, and timeless Rob Lowe playing the saxophone. It’s a not a bad thing.
  • Herbie The Love Bug (1968)- The reason I’ve always wanted a Volkswagen Beetle. The good news is my friend, Nikki, just bought one and I plan on living vicariously through her. This slug bug had heart and soul, plenty of spunk, and seemed to always find a way to fight through the toughest of situations to cross the finish line. A nice transferable sentiment to real-life from reel life.
  • Back to The Future (1985)- Who’d a thunk you could make a time machine out of a DeLorean! Michael J. Fox takes the epic journey we’ve all been curious about. If we could travel back in time, what future occurrences might we disrupt in our lives or the lives of others? For better or for worse? “You are my density.”   

It’s difficult for me to keep the list abbreviated yet must for editorial reasons. I’m hoping you’ll chime in with some of your favorites! Mainstream or obscure, I want to hear all about those one-liners you know and love, and the flicks you feel defined a specific time in your life. Remember, what makes us all amazing is our diversity. It’s OK if you don’t have the same passion for Jaws, The Wizard of OZ, Weekend at Bernie’s, or Nightmare on Elm Street that I do. I hope you’ll mention some flicks I’ve forgotten about—my grey matter isn’t what it used to be.

You heard Jen! Please comment about your favorite films. We'd love to hear from you.


Tuesday, February 14, 2017

Spotlight and Giveaway: This is How it Always Is

We're pleased to feature Laurie Frankel's latest novel, This Is How It Always Is. The subject matter is relevant in this day and age and Laurie writes from personal experience. 

Thanks to Flatiron Books, we have TWO copies to give away!


When it comes to being different and standing out, stories are the key to opening minds and winning hearts. Laurie Frankel’s novel THIS IS HOW IT ALWAYS IS (Flatiron; January 24, 2017) does just that. Everyone from bestselling writer Maria Semple to beloved librarian Nancy Pearl to Man Booker Prize finalist Ruth Ozeki to Bustle to Publishers Weekly has already singled out Laurie’s novel as a breakout book, and they’re all falling for the little girl at the center of the story: Poppy.

When Rosie and Penn and their four sons welcome the newest member of their family, no one is surprised that it’s yet another baby boy. At least their large, loving, chaotic family knows what to expect. But Claude is not like his brothers. One day he puts on a dress and refuses to take it off. He wants to bring a purse to kindergarten. He wants hair long enough to sit on. When he grows up, Claude says, he wants to be a girl.

Rosie and Penn try to take the news in stride. They alert teachers. They do their research. But for Poppy—as Claude now wants to be called—and her family, the journey is only just beginning. It takes them from Wisconsin to Seattle to Thailand, and somewhere along the way Rosie and Penn start to see that the fairy tale ending doesn’t always look the way it does in stories, that no family conforms perfectly to the cookie cutter model, and that in many ways, this is how it always is.

In the tradition of The Middlesteins by Jami Attenberg and Little Miss Sunshine, THIS IS HOW IT ALWAYS IS reminds us all that family means protecting each other’s secrets, and standing united when those secrets find their way out.

Laurie has a very personal connection to this story. Check out her New York Times Modern Love column about her own daughter, who is transgender. Laurie has drawn on her own experiences as a parent to write a novel for anyone who has to toss out the best laid plans in the face of the unexpected, for anyone who finds change both terrifying and miraculous, and for anyone who delights in watching their loved ones grow and change.


Laurie Frankel is the author of two previous novels, The Atlas of Love and Goodbye for Now. She lives in Seattle with her daughter and husband.

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Monday, February 13, 2017

Book Review: Talking as Fast as I Can

In this collection of personal essays, the beloved star of Gilmore Girls and Parenthood reveals stories about life, love, and working as a woman in Hollywood—along with behind-the-scenes dispatches from the set of the new Gilmore Girls, where she plays the fast-talking Lorelai Gilmore once again.

In Talking as Fast as I Can, Lauren Graham hits pause for a moment and looks back on her life, sharing laugh-out-loud stories about growing up, starting out as an actress, and, years later, sitting in her trailer on the Parenthood set and asking herself, “Did you, um, make it?” She opens up about the challenges of being single in Hollywood (“Strangers were worried about me; that’s how long I was single!”), the time she was asked to audition her butt for a role, and her experience being a judge on Project Runway (“It’s like I had a fashion-induced blackout”).

In “What It Was Like, Part One,” Graham sits down for an epic Gilmore Girls marathon and reflects on being cast as the fast-talking Lorelai Gilmore. The essay “What It Was Like, Part Two” reveals how it felt to pick up the role again nine years later, and what doing so has meant to her.

Some more things you will learn about Lauren: She once tried to go vegan just to bond with Ellen DeGeneres, she’s aware that meeting guys at awards shows has its pitfalls (“If you’re meeting someone for the first time after three hours of hair, makeup, and styling, you’ve already set the bar too high”), and she’s a card-carrying REI shopper (“My bungee cords now earn points!”).

Including photos and excerpts from the diary Graham kept during the filming of the recent Gilmore Girls: A Year in the Life, this book is like a cozy night in, catching up with your best friend, laughing and swapping stories, and—of course—talking as fast as you can. (Synopsis courtesy of Amazon.)


Melissa Amster:

You're about to hear perspectives on Lauren Graham's new tell-all from an avid Gilmore Girls watcher and a late-to-the-game binge-watcher who has only just finished season one. I happen to be the latter. The issue with that is most of this book is about Gilmore Girls and there are a lot of spoilers. I listened to the parts about the original series and will probably forget most of the spoilers by the time I get around to them anyway. Even hearing the spoilers for the season one finale did not ruin the fun of watching them come to life. However, I opted to skip out on the last chunk of chapters (or last 40 minutes on audio) as I have not seen the new episodes from Netflix. Perhaps I'll revisit this book when I finish.

I enjoyed listening to Lauren read her book aloud. She is really funny and has a certain nuance to the way she speaks. I'd hear her voice in my head at random times while I wasn't listening to the book. I enjoyed learning about her life and especially liked hearing about her camaraderie with the cast of Parenthood, which is a series I loved (and also happened to binge on). There are some funny moments that work better on audio than in a book, such as when she's singing a song the wrong way. However, she should not refer to photos in an audio book. If you get the book from Audible or Overdrive, you don't get the pleasure of seeing the pictures. You need to have the print version nearby as an accompaniment.

Overall, this was an easy listen during my rides to and from work or while doing mindless busywork at the office (which sometimes needs to be done).

As Lauren says..."But wait...there's more!"

Tracey Meyers:

As I attempt to write a review of the audio book version of Lauren Graham's memoir, Talking As Fast As I Can: From Gilmore Girls to Gilmore Girls (And Everything in Between),  my TV is on and Facebook is up and running on both my computer AND my phone. At one point I got up to make a cup of tea and had a cookie while I was for the water to boil. At this point you may be asking yourself why am I sharing this information with you. The Answer: I am sharing this information with you because as soon I sat down at my computer again I thought of something Lauren Graham said about the challenges she faced during the writing process. This advice caused me to turn my TV off and turn-off Facebook - on both my computer AND my phone so I could concentrate on my writing process.

The advice she gave about the writing process wasn't the only piece of wisdom I got from this "read," which is a bit surprising. I have to confess my desire to read and review this memoir was solely based on the the fact that I am a HUGE Gilmore Girls (GG) fan. Like many, my first introduction to Lauren Graham's acting was through this show. Admittedly I didn't follow the show from the very beginning, but once I started I was hooked. My association with Lauren as Lorelai Gilmore was so strong that it took some getting use to when I watched her in the 2007 movie Because I Said So and later in the TV series, Parenthood. As much as I enjoyed her as other characters, she was first and foremost Lorelai Gilmore. So as you might imagine seeing Lauren as an author is a bit hard for me. Thankfully, it didn't take me long to get past that challenge.

Now that I've gone on and on about how much LOVE Lauren Graham's acting, I will actually address what I thought of the audio book version her memoir. I had only one problem with this memoir and it's a problem that is easy to solve. Though I loved to hear Lauren narrate her book, it did bother me that I couldn't see the pictures she referred to throughout the book. Yes, it's my fault for not getting a physical or electronic copy so I'm not going to a huge deal of it. So consider this more a warning about purchasing the audio version of this book than a fault of the book itself. Aside from that one small issue, I flew through this recording. Listening to this book was like listening to an old friend tell you about their life. As I mentioned, Lauren is a great narrator which helps a lot as not all audio book narrators are created equal. However, the content of the book as good as well. I really enjoyed getting to learn more about her background and her life prior to GG. How Lauren got into acting, paid her dues and landed the role of a lifetime. If you haven't watched GG and/or the GG reboot, and plan to watch you may want to hold off on reading this book until after you've watched the show. Lauren talks a lot about the original show and the reboot so there is a lot of potential for spoilers. (Melissa, it was wrong of me to question you on how much of the book contained potential spoilers. I am sorry for doing so.)

Though my inner GG groupie loved all the talk about the show, I also enjoyed learning about Lauren's insecurities and life lessons she's acquired throughout her years. The one life lesson that stuck out and really struck a cord with me had to do with having patience for things we want - like an amazing job, love, etc. - to arrive in our life. I know this frustration all too well and when Lauren mentioned that the "train" will arrive when it's meant to arrive isn't a new lesson; however, it's a lesson I forget - periodically - and hearing a warm, sincere voice utter the reminder made my heart feel a little warmer on what was a cold January day.

I guess what I'm trying to say in all my rambling is that I thoroughly enjoyed Lauren Graham's memoir not only because it was written by Lauren Graham, which is a big plus in its favor, but due to the fact that it is a fun read that helped me escape my world for a few hours. It also gave me better insight into the humbleness of this star and how in many ways she is just like you and me.

Friday, February 10, 2017

What's in the mail

Melissa A:
Cards from Khloe's Flower Shop by Isabella Louise Anderson from Book Buddy Author Services (e-book)
Second House from the Corner by Sadeqa Johnson from St. Martin's Press (paperback)
The Simplicity of Cider by Amy E. Reichert from Gallery
Windy City Blues by Renee Rosen from Berkley
Love the Wine You're With by Kim Gruenenfelder from St. Martin's Press
The Almost Sisters by Joshilyn Jackson from William Morrow
Coming Home by Rosamunde Pilcher from St. Martin's Press
Eggshells by Caitriona Lally from Melville House (e-book via Edelweiss)
The Perfect Comeback of Caroline Jacobs by Matthew Dicks from St. Martin's Press



Melissa A and Sara:
Super 40 by/from Lucy Woodhull (e-book)

Amy:
Beautiful Bodies by Kimberly Rae Miller from Little A

Jami:
The Housekeeper by Suellen Dainty from BookSparks (e-book via NetGalley)
The Night the Lights Went Out by Karen White from Berkley  (e-book via NetGalley)

Thursday, February 9, 2017

Excerpt and Giveaway: The Orphan's Tale

We're pleased to share an excerpt from Pam Jenoff's latest novel, The Orphan's Tale (publishing February 21st from Mira). Melissa A thought it was phenomenal and says as much in her review. Thanks to TLC Book Tours, we have one copy to give away! Visit all the stops on their excerpt and review tours.

A powerful novel of friendship set in a traveling circus during World War II, The Orphan’s Tale introduces two extraordinary women and their harrowing stories of sacrifice and survival.

Sixteen-year-old Noa has been cast out in disgrace after becoming pregnant by a Nazi soldier and being forced to give up her baby. She lives above a small rail station, which she cleans in order to earn her keep… When Noa discovers a boxcar containing dozens of Jewish infants bound for a concentration camp, she is reminded of the child that was taken from her. And in a moment that will change the course of her life, she snatches one of the babies and flees into the snowy night.

Noa finds refuge with a German circus, but she must learn the flying trapeze act so she can blend in undetected, spurning the resentment of the lead aerialist, Astrid. At first rivals, Noa and Astrid soon forge a powerful bond. But as the facade that protects them proves increasingly tenuous, Noa and Astrid must decide whether their friendship is enough to save one another—or if the secrets that burn between them will destroy everything.


~Noa~

Where had these babies come from? They must have just arrived, for surely they could not last long in the icy temperatures.

I have seen the trains going east for months, people where the cattle and sacks of grain should have been. Despite the awfulness of the transport, I had told myself they were going somewhere like a camp or a village, just being kept in one place. The notion was fuzzy in my mind, but I imagined somewhere maybe with cabins or tents like the seaside campsite south of our village in Holland for those who couldn’t afford a real holiday or preferred something more rustic. Resettlement. In these dead and dying babies, though, I see the wholeness of the lie.

I glance over my shoulder. The trains of people are always guarded. But here there is no one—because there is simply no chance of the infants getting away.

Closest to me lies a baby with gray skin, its lips blue. I try to brush the thin layer of frost from its eyelashes but the child is already stiff and gone. I yank my hand back, scanning the others. Most of the infants are naked or just wrapped in a blanket or cloth, stripped of anything that would have protected them from the harsh cold. But in the center of the car, two perfect pale pink booties stick stiffly up in the air, attached to a baby who is otherwise naked. Someone had cared enough to knit those, stitch by stitch. A sob escapes through my lips.

A head peeks out among the others. Straw and feces cover its heart-shaped face. The child does not look pained or distressed, but wears a puzzled expression, as if to say “Now what am I doing here?” There is something familiar about it: coal-dark eyes, piercing through me, just as they had the day I had given birth. My heart swells.

The baby’s face crumples suddenly and it squalls. My hands shoot out, and I strain to reach it over the others before anyone else hears. My grasp falls short of the infant, who wails louder. I try to climb into the car, but the children are packed so tightly, I can’t manage for fear of stepping on one. Desperately, I strain my arms once more, just reaching. I pick up the crying child, needing to silence it. Its skin is icy as I pluck it from the car, naked save for a soiled cloth diaper.

The baby in my arms now, only the second I’d ever held, seems to calm in the crook of my elbow. Could this possibly be my child, brought back to me by fate or chance? The child’s eyes close and its head bows forward. Whether it is sleeping or dying, I cannot say. Clutching it, I start away from the train. Then I turn back: if any of those other children are still alive, I am their only chance. I should take more.

But the baby I am holding cries again, the shrill sound cutting through the silence. I cover its mouth and run back into the station.

I walk toward the closet where I sleep. Stopping at the door, I look around desperately. I have nothing. Instead I walk into the women’s toilet, the usually dank smell hardly noticeable after the boxcar. At the sink, I wipe the filth from the infant’s face with one of the rags I use for cleaning. The baby is warmer now, but two of its toes are blue and I wonder if it might lose them. Where did it come from?

I open the filthy diaper. The child is a boy like my own had been. Closer now I can see that his tiny penis looks different from the German’s, or that of the boy at school who had shown me his when I was seven. Circumcised. Steffi had told me the word once, explaining what they had done to her little brother. The child is Jewish. Not mine.

I step back as the reality I had known all along sinks in: I cannot keep a Jewish baby, or a baby at all, by myself and cleaning the station twelve hours a day. What had I been thinking?

The baby begins to roll sideways from the ledge by the sink where I had left him. I leap forward, catching him before he falls to the hard tile floor. I am unfamiliar with infants and I hold him at arm’s length now, like a dangerous animal. But he moves closer, nuzzling against my neck. I clumsily make a diaper out of the other rag, then carry the child from the toilet and out of the station, heading back toward the railcar. I have to put him back on the train, as if none of this ever happened.

At the edge of the platform, I freeze. One of the guards is now walking along the tracks, blocking my way back to the train. I search desperately in all directions. Close to the side of the station sits a milk delivery truck, the rear stacked high with large cans. Impulsively I start toward it. I slide the baby into one of the empty jugs, trying not to think about how icy the metal must be against his bare skin. He does not make a sound but just stares at me helplessly.

I duck behind a bench as the truck door slams. In a second, it will leave, taking the infant with it.
And no one will know what I have done.

Pam Jenoff is the author of several novels, including the international bestseller The Kommandant’s Girl, which also earned her a Quill Award nomination. Pam lives with her husband and three children near Philadelphia where, in addition to writing, she teaches law school. Visit Pam at her website, Facebook, and Twitter.

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Wednesday, February 8, 2017

Just in time for Valentine's Day...

The initial version of Hyong Yi's "The #100 Love Notes Project" launched on the streets of Charlotte, North Carolina on November 21, 2015. To honor his wife, Catherine Zanga, on the one-year anniversary of her death from ovarian cancer, Hyong and his two young children gave strangers 100 handwritten love notes, notes that chronicled Hyong and Catherine’s life together, from their first meeting, to dating, marriage, children, and her death, which came far too soon. NBC and ABC Nightly News, Good Morning America, and The Today Show covered the story. So did Buzzfeed, Upworthy, Someecards, Collective Evolution, Yahoo News, Blessings.com, and many other online and international news sources.

Inspired by the loving reception the note cards received, Hyong commissioned 17 artists to illustrate some of the most compelling moments of his and Catherine’s marriage. The art runs the gamut from watercolor, to pen and ink, mosaic and collage; from traditional paintings to digital compositions. The results are the forthcoming publications: 100 Love Notes and The #100 Love Notes Project, a Love Story (Lorimer Press, February 2017). Hyong's words are beautiful, funny, heartbreaking, and most importantly, a call for all of us to let those we love know how we feel.

Hyong Yi has spent his career working as a public servant, currently for the City of Charlotte. He earned degrees in political science and public administration, qualifying him to work in government. He loves his community, his family, his children, and most importantly, his late wife, Catherine. For more information, visit Hyong at his website, Facebook, and Twitter.

Tuesday, February 7, 2017

Book Review: It's Not You, It's Them

By Sara Steven

Roxie Pratt is the type of woman who knows what she wants, and isn’t afraid to say so. Sporting anything with a heel, feminine to a T, she’s rocking a lifestyle where it pays to be independent, and she knows how to take care of herself, thank you very much. No need for any man to come and sweep her off her feet.

Not until Mark Wright enters the picture.

He’s everything she ever imagined her perfect soul mate to be. Sweet, respectful. Intelligent. Thoughtful. And all wrapped up within a rockin’ bod that any woman would drool over. When he proposes, she feels as though she’s won the lottery of life, enough to give in a little with her independent ways, allowing herself to feel a oneness with Mark, completeness. Everything is perfect. But there’s just one stumbling block on the road to wedded bliss. His family.

Portia MacIntosh knows just how to create the sort of tension and friction in a room that makes you cringe inwardly, while outwardly you want to witness more of the drama! Roxie enters the Wright home on the wrong foot, and feels as though she can’t do anything right. It doesn’t help that Mark’s mother has no qualms in being honest on her true feelings on the upcoming nuptials, and how wrong she feels Roxie is for her darling boy. Even going so far as to invite Mark’s first love to dinner! How incredibly uncomfortable and awkward is that!

I’m reminded of something I was told once, by a pastor who had seen his fair share of weddings and family drama. He said, “Once you marry, this person becomes your family, the person you lean on and depend on, the one you cleave to. The family you grew up with, will become your extended family.” I could see a lot of those boundaries being drawn in the sinking quicksand while reading It’s Not You, It’s Them. Having been in a situation of my own where I’ve had to deal with a woman who obviously hadn't cut the cord with her adult son, I could totally relate to how Roxie felt. I got to reminisce on my own fumbles, too, while Roxie tries desperately to hold onto Mark and not lose the love that they have for one another, and maintain who she is as a person. For so many of us who have been in those shoes, it’s a fun heartfelt story we can all identify with.

Thanks to Portia MacIntosh for the book in exchange for an honest review.

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Monday, February 6, 2017

Spotlight: Housewife

PARENTING PARTNER, ROMANTIC PARTNER, & TWO CHILDREN, ALL LIVING HARMONIOUSLY IN ONE LOVING HOUSEHOLD

Housewife: Home-remaking in a Transgender Marriage is the story of how one woman invites her partner’s gender transition to transform her and the shape of their family. Told from the perspective of the partner rather than the person transitioning, Collier offers a rare glimpse into the importance of seeing gender transition as a family affair.

The story begins with a happily married, heterosexual couple facing a life-altering house fire, just six weeks after the birth of their second son. In the aftermath of the fire, Collier’s husband wrestles with larger questions of who he is and eventually admits that he can no longer live life as a man. While he transitions to live the rest of his life as a woman, Collier remains supportive, redefining herself as well, while their family “breaks out of the box” over the next several years.

“In order for society-at-large to accept and support transpeople and their families, transfamilies must at times become visible and detail their experiences,” says Collier. “Communities can then witness our likenesses rather than setting us apart as ‘other,’ as so often happens when a group is feared and misunderstood.”

A beautifully written story filled with authenticity, vulnerability and tenderness, through the pages of Housewife readers will:

• Gain compassion for what partners and families go through when a partner transitions.

• Learn how “radical honesty” turned a transgender marriage into a deep friendship, laying the foundation for a stable, loving family unit as the parents’ roles shifted.

• Understand that things aren’t always what they appear to be, reminding us to step out of our bubbles and get curious about why it is when people don’t respond the way we expect them to.

• Gain more understanding of transgenderism in general, and how we can become better allies and support, whether we find ourselves as partners, friends or community of transpeople.

• Be transformed & encouraged to break out of our own boxes — gender roles are society’s expectations of how men and women should look and act.

• See that our identities are created by how we see ourselves in tandem with how the world sees us; our identities are shaped by our perceived genders, roles, and responsibilities.

• And so much more…

“It is my hope that this story contributes to those who are seeking information, companionship, and the inspiration to grow their capacity for love,” adds Collier.


Kristin K. Collier is an educator and writer from Eugene, OR. Her words have appeared in The Sun magazine, and her poetry is a frontispiece for Michael and Kathleen O’Neal Gear’s People of the Sea. She has been teaching Compassionate Communication since 2004. Collier and her spouse were featured in NPR's program, Snap Judgment, in their Valentine's 2012 edition. As well, Collier has been urban farming since 2005 and was a keynote speaker for the Eugene Permaculture Gathering in 2007. Visit Kristin at her website, Facebook, and Twitter.