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Monday, November 19, 2012
We know how Jessica Gordon "rolls"...plus a book giveaway
**Giveaway is now closed**
Jessica Gordon and I have a few things in common: We both love chick lit (like that isn't obvious), we both are Jewish and we both live in Washington D.C. (well, I live close enough...). I had the opportunity to read her debut novel, Becoming Mrs. Walsh, and I fell in love with it. (Check out my review!)
Jessica is a Johns Hopkins University alumna for both her undergraduate and graduate degrees. She received her bachelor’s degree in liberal arts from the Writing Seminars program and her master’s degree in communications. After working in the corporate world for several years, Jessica decided to return to her first love: creative writing. In Becoming Mrs. Walsh, Jessica takes her readers to the prominent Washington, D.C. area where her characters navigate through the complex world of family, in-laws, and love. (She also takes them on a few other adventures, but you'll have to read the book to find out where!)
We're excited to feature Jessica at Chick Lit Central today and we know you will enjoy meeting her! She even has THREE e-books of Becoming Mrs. Walsh for some lucky readers anywhere in the world!
You can find Jessica at her website, Facebook and Twitter.
What was the self-publishing experience like for you? Any tips for future self-publishers?
I think that for any author the first part of the publishing process is to have a compelling story to tell and to tell it well. The second part is to publish it. If you have your book professionally edited and you publish it yourself, the quality of the book (in my opinion) is on par with a traditionally published book. With the extreme popularity of e-readers, self-published e-books have been a huge hit. The process of self-publishing is straight forward due to the numerous step-by-step directions available online. The difficult, time consuming and, at times, frustrating part is the very specific formatting that is required in order for the document to be “e-book ready.” Formatting for online or print has to be done just right or the book will not be accepted into the various online catalogs.
As far as tips for self-publishers: If you think about all of the time and effort that goes into writing a book, I think the same amount of effort should go into the outward appearance. This is key so your self-published book will have the same quality as any traditionally published book. Social media is also important: Twitter, Facebook, Goodreads, use these free sites to your advantage. The more you spread the word about your book, the better.
How did you decide to write chick lit?
The decision to write chick lit came naturally. I studied writing in college and loved the creative process so much. Even armed with the knowledge I had, I still never sat down to write a novel. I’ve always been a fan of chick lit and women’s fiction. I would finish a book in those genres and think ‘I should really do this.’ So one day I did. I was inspired by my own experience marrying into a large family. My husband is the youngest of three boys, which meant meeting a lot of different future in-laws. And the spark of an idea began, that spark turned into a fire. I kept writing everyday, sometimes even waking up in the middle of the night to write scenes. The more the story developed the more I knew it was perfect for the chick lit genre. I like books that don’t take themselves too seriously, just seriously enough.
With which of the Walsh women (from your novel) do you have the most in common?
The Walsh women. An excellent question indeed. I love Rachel. She and I both lived in New York and New Jersey. She tells it like it is, but can also be open and friendly and easy to get along with. I like that she is not over-the-top or obnoxious, just straight forward and honest—a real ‘girl next door.’ There are elements of Shoshana I can also see in myself. I don’t always agree with her, but I think she is relatable. I particularly like her emotions throughout the book, she is very real and raw and I like that she allows herself to go there.
What kind of research did you do for Becoming Mrs. Walsh?
A lot of people-watching and ‘D.C. city behavior observing’ for starters. When you write dialogue, you really want to have an ear for the way people speak. I also made sure I went to every place mentioned in the book, not just passed it on the street, but actually went into the place and sat there and visualized the characters there. Only two places had made-up names, but they were based on real restaurants. I really wanted the book to be authentic to D.C. There was also an incredible amount of fashion and brand research. Some I knew and some I had to investigate. I wanted each of the sisters-in-laws' styles to accurately match their personality. Ariel would never be in Burberry, but a hot pink Herve Leger—definitely!
If Becoming Mrs. Walsh were made into a movie, who would play the four women? Are there any other characters you've cast in your head?
This is an interesting question because I don’t want to specifically assign an actress to each of them. I think it is fun if people have their own image of the characters. But, I will say this, Shoshana has to be someone with personality and spunk, and the reddish-brown hair is a must. She must greatly contrast with Ariel and Zoey who are both tall and thin. Their style is impeccable and their faces are gorgeous. Zoey is more mysterious and brooding and Ariel is loud and brash. Rachel, however, I see as very preppy with shiny brown hair, not a hair out of place. Mark. Wow. Someone extremely gorgeous, tall, and built. He needs to be sexy and charming, but still have that boyish grin. The type of man that it is nearly impossible not to like or even fall for!
Sushi is mentioned a lot in your novel. Do you like sushi? If so, which kind of roll do you usually order?
You caught me! I love sushi. I think sushi is consistent throughout the book because of what it represents. I tend to think of sushi as this trendy ‘cool’ thing to eat. It’s almost like sushi and ‘shi shi’ sound alike. And that is how I see Shoshana and the Walsh family. Shoshana gets acclimated into the shi shi/sushi world of the Walshes.
I like all different rolls, just nothing too spicy. I think the more inventive the roll, the better!
What do you like best about living in Washington D.C.?
I love living here! I am not originally from here, as you find with most Washingtonians. I went to Johns Hopkins University in Baltimore, MD which brought me down here from New York. After school I moved to D.C. for graduate school and I thought I would move back. But then I met my husband and now years later I am a full-fledged D.C. resident and enthusiast! It is absolutely beautiful here, even the bridges are a thing of beauty. It has a very European feel. One of the original D.C. city planners was Pierre L’Enfant, a French-born architect. He modeled the city after places like Paris, Amsterdam, and Milan. At least once a day I hear a language spoken other than English. It is a transient city that makes the bond among ‘locals’ living here even stronger. It really is like living in a small town that also happens to be the epicenter of the free world with major people and politics all around you.
Do you watch the Macy's Thanksgiving Day parade? If so, which float is your favorite?
I watch the beginning of it, but more in the ‘I must watch the start’ of it type of way. Same with the NYC marathon. I want to see the race kick-off for the sheer excitement of it all. I’m not sure I have a specific favorite, but the more colorful and imaginative, the better! I don’t know how people stand outside for it. There is something about being home and watching the floats go by that feels right, much like reading: a parade of vivid scenes and characters coming into your mind in the privacy of your own home.
Special thanks to Jessica for an enlightening interview and for sharing her book with our readers.
How to win Becoming Mrs. Walsh:
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Giveaway ends November 25th at midnight EST.
Sunday, November 18, 2012
Book Review: Becoming Mrs. Walsh
By Melissa Amster
Two things initially attracted me to Jessica Gordon's debut novel, Becoming Mrs. Walsh, right away....the main character's name is of Hebrew origin and it takes place in Washington D.C.. However, there's much more to this novel than those two surface items that earned it brownie points from me. Soon, I found myself completely swept away and thinking about the story all the time.
Shoshana "Sho" Thompson is from the midwest and raised by a mom that likes to keep things simple and organic. When she moves to Washington DC and meets Drew Walsh, she is soon swept up into his family's extravagant lifestyle once he proposes to her. Her future sister-in-laws are in her business all the time and her future mother-in-law spoils Sho as if she's her own child. While she feels like she doesn't fit in, Sho knows she could learn to live with the wealth and privilege. When Drew shuts himself off from her in favor of work and she becomes attracted to a man who is very much off limits, she has to decide if it's worth becoming Mrs. Walsh if she's not going to be truly happy.
Jessica Gordon's writing style is engaging and genuine throughout the entire novel. Shoshana feels like a real person in the way she thinks, talks and conveys emotion. I'm sure she's not the only bride-to-be who has ever been in a dilemma concerning her future husband. However, even if you haven't been in her shoes, you can feel her anxiety over the decisions she has to make. I really liked the interactions between Shoshana and all the other characters in the story. Sho's relationship with Birdie, her future mother-in-law, really stood out to me, as it reminded me of my relationship with my mother-in-law. (All for good reasons though.) I couldn't relate on the sister-in-law level, as my sister-in-law is so easy to get along with and the most I have to worry about "measuring up" is in my cooking and how observant I am with Judaism. However, I could imagine it being difficult to feel so awkward around people who are so put-together, as I feel that way in general sometimes. Jessica uses a reasonable amount of description, but makes everything easy to visualize and doesn't hit you over the head with it either. It enhances, instead of detracts from, the story. I also enjoyed the armchair adventures in various parts of the story. It was fun to feel vicariously rich and pampered for the duration of the story.
While there were three other Walsh women in the story, only one of them (Zoey) really had a back story. Rachel and Ariel were there either because Sho had a kinship with them or because they were around to make things stressful. Rachel did have more dialogue with Sho, but it still didn't reveal anything about her as much as add to Sho's situation. I think Jessica could have easily revealed more about them without taking away from the main plot. Especially since she shares a lot of details about them on her website. Aside from that, I felt the ending was a bit anti-climatic after all the build-up and that it almost ended abruptly, or at least it could be seen that way. Maybe that's just me being selfish and wanting to read more, but a lot of tension and excitement happened in the last 10% of the book (according to my e-reader, that's where it really happened). I also got confused sometimes and would read "Sho" as "She." After a while I got used to it though.
Two things initially attracted me to Jessica Gordon's debut novel, Becoming Mrs. Walsh, right away....the main character's name is of Hebrew origin and it takes place in Washington D.C.. However, there's much more to this novel than those two surface items that earned it brownie points from me. Soon, I found myself completely swept away and thinking about the story all the time.
Shoshana "Sho" Thompson is from the midwest and raised by a mom that likes to keep things simple and organic. When she moves to Washington DC and meets Drew Walsh, she is soon swept up into his family's extravagant lifestyle once he proposes to her. Her future sister-in-laws are in her business all the time and her future mother-in-law spoils Sho as if she's her own child. While she feels like she doesn't fit in, Sho knows she could learn to live with the wealth and privilege. When Drew shuts himself off from her in favor of work and she becomes attracted to a man who is very much off limits, she has to decide if it's worth becoming Mrs. Walsh if she's not going to be truly happy.
Jessica Gordon's writing style is engaging and genuine throughout the entire novel. Shoshana feels like a real person in the way she thinks, talks and conveys emotion. I'm sure she's not the only bride-to-be who has ever been in a dilemma concerning her future husband. However, even if you haven't been in her shoes, you can feel her anxiety over the decisions she has to make. I really liked the interactions between Shoshana and all the other characters in the story. Sho's relationship with Birdie, her future mother-in-law, really stood out to me, as it reminded me of my relationship with my mother-in-law. (All for good reasons though.) I couldn't relate on the sister-in-law level, as my sister-in-law is so easy to get along with and the most I have to worry about "measuring up" is in my cooking and how observant I am with Judaism. However, I could imagine it being difficult to feel so awkward around people who are so put-together, as I feel that way in general sometimes. Jessica uses a reasonable amount of description, but makes everything easy to visualize and doesn't hit you over the head with it either. It enhances, instead of detracts from, the story. I also enjoyed the armchair adventures in various parts of the story. It was fun to feel vicariously rich and pampered for the duration of the story.
While there were three other Walsh women in the story, only one of them (Zoey) really had a back story. Rachel and Ariel were there either because Sho had a kinship with them or because they were around to make things stressful. Rachel did have more dialogue with Sho, but it still didn't reveal anything about her as much as add to Sho's situation. I think Jessica could have easily revealed more about them without taking away from the main plot. Especially since she shares a lot of details about them on her website. Aside from that, I felt the ending was a bit anti-climatic after all the build-up and that it almost ended abruptly, or at least it could be seen that way. Maybe that's just me being selfish and wanting to read more, but a lot of tension and excitement happened in the last 10% of the book (according to my e-reader, that's where it really happened). I also got confused sometimes and would read "Sho" as "She." After a while I got used to it though.
I've been recommending Becoming Mrs. Walsh to my friends and am confident everyone will enjoy it as much as I did. It was a page turner from beginning to end and I had a hard time "putting it down" (given it was on my PC Kindle). I have a feeling Jessica Gordon is going to make a name for herself with Chick Lit! And at $2.99 for Kindle, it's a great deal!
Being the movie freak I am, I even cast the five Walsh women in my head. (Becoming Mrs. Walsh would make for a great chick flick, after all.)
Shoshana: Emma Stone (she's a little young for the role, but I think she can pull it off) or Jessica Stroup (Silver from 90210). I think both would fit the part really well!
Rachel: Rachel Bilson
Zoey: Zooey Deschanel
(I know it's a first name thing, but I pictured these two women the entire time.)
Ariel: Brooklyn Decker (She's probably way too young, but she totally looks the part)
Birdie: Holland Taylor
(It will be interesting to see if Jessica agrees with these choices in her interview.)
Thanks to Jessica for the e-book in exchange for an honest review. She'll be giving away some e-books worldwide during her interview this week!
Shoshana: Emma Stone (she's a little young for the role, but I think she can pull it off) or Jessica Stroup (Silver from 90210). I think both would fit the part really well!
Rachel: Rachel Bilson
Zoey: Zooey Deschanel
(I know it's a first name thing, but I pictured these two women the entire time.)
Ariel: Brooklyn Decker (She's probably way too young, but she totally looks the part)
Birdie: Holland Taylor
(It will be interesting to see if Jessica agrees with these choices in her interview.)
Thanks to Jessica for the e-book in exchange for an honest review. She'll be giving away some e-books worldwide during her interview this week!
Friday, November 16, 2012
Spend your holidays with the Christmas Creche!
As we're sure you've all heard, some of your favorite writers including Scarlett Bailey, Abby Clements, Victoria Connelly, Miranda Dickinson, Michele Gorman, Belinda Jones, Carole Matthews, Talli Roland and Julia Williams have all given birth to festive little bundles of joy. It's wonderful when so many friends have book babies around the same time, because that means they can grow up together and be best friends too.


To help the tots cement their friendships (and to get a bit of peace and quiet - those deadlines aren't getting any easier!), the authors have enrolled them in the Christmas Creche*, where the ultra-capable Miss Dewey will look after them for a few hours a day until the Christmas holidays. And to keep the mothers from pestering her, she has kindly agreed to document what her charges get up to.
Poor Miss Dewey! She doesn't know what she's in for - these little ones already know their minds, that's for sure.
Readers can follow the Christmas Creche short stories over the next six weeks by popping over to the creche now and subscribing or by following any of the writers on Twitter or Facebook.
*That's nursery in North American!
To help the tots cement their friendships (and to get a bit of peace and quiet - those deadlines aren't getting any easier!), the authors have enrolled them in the Christmas Creche*, where the ultra-capable Miss Dewey will look after them for a few hours a day until the Christmas holidays. And to keep the mothers from pestering her, she has kindly agreed to document what her charges get up to.
Poor Miss Dewey! She doesn't know what she's in for - these little ones already know their minds, that's for sure.
Follow the writers to keep up with all the fun...
Scarlett Bailey, Married by Christmas and Santa Maybe
Twitter: @ScarlettBailey / Facebook: ScarlettBailey
Twitter: @ScarlettBailey / Facebook: ScarlettBailey
*That's nursery in North American!
Book Review: Dog Trots Globe - To Paris & Provence
Let me start this review by saying I am a dog lover first and foremost. My shih tzu, Sassy, is the center of my world, but my little one is a dickens and I love her for everything that’s good as well as everything that she does that makes me want to tear my hair out - on the rare occasion. With that out of the way here’s my review of DOG TROTS GLOBE - TO PARIS & PROVENCE by Sheron Long.
Introducing Chula: The nine year-old Sheltie and star of Dog Trots Globe - To Paris & Provence. It’s a dog’s life for Chula as she jets from Carmel Valley, California to Paris, France and Bullet trains down to Saint-Remy-de Provence. Chula’s owner capture’s the four-legged pup’s point of view in the narrative and scatters within the book over one hundred and fifty delightful photographs. The pictures document Chula’s incredibly good behavior, while at the bistros playing with doggy waiters and eating croissants and those rare mischievous times when she gets in the path of three-thousand sheep. But remember, she is a well-behaved canine, unlike others we know.
While reading Dog Trots Globe - To Paris & Provence, I tried to imagine my Sassy obeying my commands like Chula as we traveled the world, with no success. But then I looked down at her quietly sleeping by my feet as I wrote this review, and I knew in my heart I was so incredibly blessed to have her. All of us with our dogs are. And I believe that is the message for anyone who has a pet or is thinking about getting a pet. Pick up Dog Trots Globe - To Paris & Provence and your life will be fuller. It’s a perfect holiday gift!
For additional information on Chula's continuing adventures, including a fun contest, please visit her Facebook page and discover fun contests and free ebooks.
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| Staring at lavender; Mont Ventoux |
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| At the Sault Fountain |
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| Enjoying a sidewalk café in France |
All photos © Sheron Long
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Thursday, November 15, 2012
Jessica Grose gives us the inside scoop, plus a book giveaway
| Photo by Judith Ebenstein |
Today we welcome Jessica Grose and her debut novel Sad Desk Salad. Jessica writes about women's issues, family, culture, and grizzly bears. She was formerly a senior editor at Slate, and an editor at Jezebel. Her work has appeared in the New York Times, New York, Glamour, Marie Claire, Bloomberg Businessweek, and several other publications. Jessica is the co-author, with Doree Shafrir, of Love, Mom: Poignant, Goofy, Brilliant Messages from Home, based on their blog, Postcards From Yo Momma. She lives in Brooklyn.
You can find Jessica on Facebook, Twitter and at her website.
Thanks to HarperCollins, we have FIVE copies of Sad Desk Salad to give away to some lucky readers anywhere in the US.
What was the most challenging about the writing process for you?
Keeping faith. I kept worrying: what if this is awful? What if no one will tell me it's awful? What if I spend months and months on this and I never sell it? Ultimately I needed to trust my own taste, and not be so outwardly focused. I had to internalize the mantra that the process was worthwhile, no matter what the outcome was. I could always feel proud of the fact that I wrote an entire book, even if nothing had ever happened with it.
In one sentence, what was road to publishing like?
Somewhat bumpy, fueled by strong coffee.
Do you have a favorite character or one you most identify with?
My favorite character is the best friend, Jane. She's an amalgam of a lot of my good friends, and I loved showing a supportive, and hopefully realistic, female friendship. I also adore Caleb, the ex-boyfriend, because he's just such a bonehead, and he provides a lot of the belly laughs in later chapters.
What's the most interesting comment you've received about the book so far?
Someone tweeted at me that her values felt challenged by the novel, which was the greatest compliment I could get. Even though on the surface, the book is a fun mystery, I really did hope to grapple with bigger, more serious issues like privacy on the internet, and what celebrity means in our culture today. So that a reader was engaging with it on that level was great. Also an interviewer described the book as a story about a girl breaking up with her computer, which I thought was really clever.
If Sad Desk Salad were made into a movie, whom would you cast in the lead roles?
I would make Emma Stone the heroine Alex--she has that perfect blend of intelligence, comedic quickness and complexity (I think Alex is a lot like Emma's awesome character in Easy A, Olive. I loved that movie and her in it!).
Funniest thing that happened to you recently.
I am almost eight months pregnant so there are LOTS of funny things that happen to me physically on a daily basis but I'm not sure any of them are fit to share in mixed company. Someone told me yesterday that pregnant women in New York City are legally allowed to pee anywhere they want. I have not yet tested the boundaries of this law but thinking about it makes me laugh and laugh.
Are you a cat or dog person?
Dog! My parents have a cockapoo named Cassie that I get to dogsit on occasion. She is the cutest. Also I have spent more time than I'd like to admit watching Corgi videos on the Internet.
What is one item you can't live without?
Running sneakers. Though my running career is on hiatus since I am so pregnant, I can't wait to get back outside for a run. It's my favorite hobby, it clears my head and makes me feel great.
Tell us one author who you would love to meet.
Nora Ephron. Maybe in some quippy afterlife...How to win Sad Desk Salad:
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a. When was the last time you were sad?
b. What is the coolest item on your desk?
c. What is your favorite salad dressing?
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US only. Giveaway ends November 20th at midnight EST.
Wednesday, November 14, 2012
Winner of "You Tell Your Dog First"
To find our winner, we assigned a number to each entry (from only the entries with contact info) and asked random.org to choose one number. It picked 20.
Congrats to Jessica M!
Here is a message from Alison Pace:
Reminder: If you have won a book, you have about 48 hours to claim it by sending your contact information. (You will be e-mailed if you have won, as well.) After that time, a new winner will be picked.
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Thanks to Allison for a wonderful return visit and Penguin for sharing the book with our winner.
Check out our latest giveaways and also enter ones from other blogs and websites on our giveaways page.
Congrats to Jessica M!
Here is a message from Alison Pace:
Hi! Congratulations on winning a copy of my non-fiction debut, You Tell Your Dog First! This book is very near and dear to my heart as it is about, well, all the things that are near and dear to me: dogs, my wonderful, wonderful dog Carlie, family, friendships, love, New York City, Central Park and other good things. I started writing this book about four years ago but in many ways it started long before that: as I was growing up in a home where we had at least four dogs at any time. It's a book about the many amazing ways dogs positively affect our lives and connect us to the world. I hope you enjoy reading it as much as I enjoyed writing it. Thanks for your interest in my book and thanks so much to the terrific ladies at Chick Lit Central for giving me the opportunity to connect with their readers!
xo Alison
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Guest Post: Jennifer Brown-Thomas on Being a Strong Woman
Jennifer Brown-Thomas can do it all. The young, high-achieving, writer and director is on a fast-track to book and film-making success. Transforming her own life experiences into a thriving business that encompasses everything she’s passionate about -- film, writing, fashion and food. She is now at the tipping point of her career, as her first book and film, Blissful Lies, has recently been published and picked up for worldwide distribution. As an extension of the brand, Jennifer Brown-Thomas has also partnered with Runway Ready owner Fanitsa Limberis to form Limberis Brown Thomas (LBT), a lifestyle brand that plans to create a fragrance, clothing line, coffee shop and more in the near future.
To learn more about Jennifer, visit her at Facebook, Twitter and her website!
"Being a strong woman is very important to me. But doing it all on my own is not." --Reba McEntire
This is one of my favorite quotes—mostly, because it resonates with me on countless levels. Allowing myself to dream big has always been quite easy, but allowing others to aid in my road to success has been harder than expected. Becoming a mother was a profoundly difficult journey for me, after two miscarriages I felt distraught and brokenhearted in a way I’d never known before. In fact, it was because of that very feeling I launched myself into my career with the initial idea—‘Hey, let’s make a movie.’ The month following my decision to sign with the Blissful Lies producer, I found out I was in fact, pregnant for the third time. Looking back now, I realize if my first pregnancy had been successful, I wouldn’t be here talking to you now. But because of the struggles my husband and I faced during our painful quest to become parents, it was much harder to relinquish control or responsibility to anyone else, where my daughter was concerned. I felt as though it was solely my job to do everything on my own—because I felt that’s what defined me as a mother and as a woman. After the first year of parenting, I realized it didn’t make me a bad mom to utilize the help I had at my disposal. And slowly, I’ve accepted that some days I do need help…
Getting married, becoming a mother, graduating from TCU and then continuing on to Law School was always the golden path for my future… Not at all what my future has become. Today, I’m known as ‘mommy,’ to my almost two-year-old daughter, who is more than I could’ve ever hoped for in a child. ‘A movie, a book, the launch of your new empire LBT enterprises and no hopes of slowing down… How do you manage it all?’ This was a question asked verbatim during an interview I did a few months ago, and truthfully the answer is quite simple: I have help. Almost my entire family and extended family lives within minutes of me, so it’s amazing to have help so close. To all my mothers out there, you know how hard it is to raise a child—there are no books, no guides, no ‘how to’ cliff notes—you do the best you can with what you have and it either works, or it doesn’t and you regroup.
For me, the art of being a parent and having a career like this is a delicate juggling act. Work is very important to me, but above all else—I’m a mom first. And so far it’s been hard for reasons I never would’ve anticipated. The lack of sleep, the lack of privacy, the lack of quiet time… all of these are parenting issues I’ve dealt with well—but what I’ve had to really make sure I work on is staying three steps ahead of everyone else so I’m never missing a moment of my daughter’s life. Her first crawl, her first steps, her first giggle, her first words—never missed anything. My job makes that hard—it makes it very hard, but I’ve managed to stay ahead of the game so far. The most productive time of day for me is anywhere from 10:00 p.m. to 6:00 a.m. That’s when a majority of my writing is done and for me, that’s when I feel most creative. And thankfully, that’s usually when my daughter is sleeping… usually.
Balancing it all is challenging most days, but it’s such a rewarding life I’ve been blessed enough to live. Blissful Lies made the Amazon bestsellers list; the film mirroring the novel was offered a world wide distribution deal; LBT enterprises (Limberis-Brown-Thomas) is in pre-production for its first fragrance and girls clothing line; and the release of my next book, Vindictive Grounds—recently projected to be the next ‘Fifty Shades of Grey,’ will release at the beginning of the year. My husband—who is traveling for work two weeks out of the month, my mother—who is my Texas manager and my father—who is more help with my daughter than I could ever thank him for, my in-laws—who are always asking to babysit, my grandparents—who have believed in every one of my goals set thus far, and who have supported and encouraged in ways I can’t even begin to process, and my cousins, aunts, uncles and dear friends who have volunteered on movie sets, hosted late night edit sessions, delivered food to a starving staff… you name it, they’ve gone above and beyond—and there involvement has been paramount in my success story.
Dreaming is the easy part. Making those dreams a reality is a little more challenging… but every day it’s getting easier to push forward and continue to make things happen.
“Being a strong woman is very important to me. But doing it all on my own is not." --Reba McEntire
Reiterating the quote I opened with: Dreaming is
the easy part… turning those dreams into reality is a little more challenging. But knowing I’m not facing the uphill battle alone, makes it much easier.
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"Being a strong woman is very important to me. But doing it all on my own is not." --Reba McEntire
This is one of my favorite quotes—mostly, because it resonates with me on countless levels. Allowing myself to dream big has always been quite easy, but allowing others to aid in my road to success has been harder than expected. Becoming a mother was a profoundly difficult journey for me, after two miscarriages I felt distraught and brokenhearted in a way I’d never known before. In fact, it was because of that very feeling I launched myself into my career with the initial idea—‘Hey, let’s make a movie.’ The month following my decision to sign with the Blissful Lies producer, I found out I was in fact, pregnant for the third time. Looking back now, I realize if my first pregnancy had been successful, I wouldn’t be here talking to you now. But because of the struggles my husband and I faced during our painful quest to become parents, it was much harder to relinquish control or responsibility to anyone else, where my daughter was concerned. I felt as though it was solely my job to do everything on my own—because I felt that’s what defined me as a mother and as a woman. After the first year of parenting, I realized it didn’t make me a bad mom to utilize the help I had at my disposal. And slowly, I’ve accepted that some days I do need help…
Getting married, becoming a mother, graduating from TCU and then continuing on to Law School was always the golden path for my future… Not at all what my future has become. Today, I’m known as ‘mommy,’ to my almost two-year-old daughter, who is more than I could’ve ever hoped for in a child. ‘A movie, a book, the launch of your new empire LBT enterprises and no hopes of slowing down… How do you manage it all?’ This was a question asked verbatim during an interview I did a few months ago, and truthfully the answer is quite simple: I have help. Almost my entire family and extended family lives within minutes of me, so it’s amazing to have help so close. To all my mothers out there, you know how hard it is to raise a child—there are no books, no guides, no ‘how to’ cliff notes—you do the best you can with what you have and it either works, or it doesn’t and you regroup.For me, the art of being a parent and having a career like this is a delicate juggling act. Work is very important to me, but above all else—I’m a mom first. And so far it’s been hard for reasons I never would’ve anticipated. The lack of sleep, the lack of privacy, the lack of quiet time… all of these are parenting issues I’ve dealt with well—but what I’ve had to really make sure I work on is staying three steps ahead of everyone else so I’m never missing a moment of my daughter’s life. Her first crawl, her first steps, her first giggle, her first words—never missed anything. My job makes that hard—it makes it very hard, but I’ve managed to stay ahead of the game so far. The most productive time of day for me is anywhere from 10:00 p.m. to 6:00 a.m. That’s when a majority of my writing is done and for me, that’s when I feel most creative. And thankfully, that’s usually when my daughter is sleeping… usually.
Balancing it all is challenging most days, but it’s such a rewarding life I’ve been blessed enough to live. Blissful Lies made the Amazon bestsellers list; the film mirroring the novel was offered a world wide distribution deal; LBT enterprises (Limberis-Brown-Thomas) is in pre-production for its first fragrance and girls clothing line; and the release of my next book, Vindictive Grounds—recently projected to be the next ‘Fifty Shades of Grey,’ will release at the beginning of the year. My husband—who is traveling for work two weeks out of the month, my mother—who is my Texas manager and my father—who is more help with my daughter than I could ever thank him for, my in-laws—who are always asking to babysit, my grandparents—who have believed in every one of my goals set thus far, and who have supported and encouraged in ways I can’t even begin to process, and my cousins, aunts, uncles and dear friends who have volunteered on movie sets, hosted late night edit sessions, delivered food to a starving staff… you name it, they’ve gone above and beyond—and there involvement has been paramount in my success story.Dreaming is the easy part. Making those dreams a reality is a little more challenging… but every day it’s getting easier to push forward and continue to make things happen.
“Being a strong woman is very important to me. But doing it all on my own is not." --Reba McEntire
Reiterating the quote I opened with: Dreaming is
the easy part… turning those dreams into reality is a little more challenging. But knowing I’m not facing the uphill battle alone, makes it much easier.
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